After illness, losing my hair, older and suddenly not attractive? ?

I'm in a strange predicament. I was a very healthy, pretty attractive individual in college and after. I worked hard, worked my way through college, dated some very active/attractive people. I than went through a horrible illness at age 25. It's torn apart my health for the last 7 years. As I try to regather my life, I have also tried dating. What I am finding out is the people that I was attracted too before and vice versa just aren't into me any longer. I don't have life experiences for the last years and am obviously older. Everyone has always told me I have a great personality and I'm also in really good shape despite everything. So, my predicament is I'm not attracted to the people who are attracted to me now. I like older people, younger people and don't have the highest of standards but this whole illness has made my hair recede in weird spots and has taken away a large portion of my life. What does one do? I try going on multiple dates with people even if I don't find them initially attractive, but it doesn't work.





Thanks ahead of time for helpAfter illness, losing my hair, older and suddenly not attractive? ?
first of all I'm really sorry you had to go through all of that...i am 23 and i have rheumatoid arthritis and my treatment may in fact give me the same effect, you just have to live life the way you want to...don't let one physical thing distract everyone from seeing all the wonderful things about you. If you focus too much on it other people will too. Maybe you could work with your hairstylist to get a hair cut that would make you feel better...i' don't really know since I don't know what your hair looks like...well I hope I helped a little bit...good luck!